She/Her Gay

A she/her gay is a specifically tailored identity that refers to a gay man who uses she/her pronouns. The term can be used by any men who are mlm (achillean) and use she/her pronouns. Those pronouns can be exclusive or one can be multipronoun or pronoun non-conforming.

There also exists neopronoun gays, neopronoun lesbians, he/him lesbians, they/them lesbians, it/its lesbians, they/them gay individuals, and it/its gay individuals.

She/her gays are also sometimes referred to as she/her vincians, she/her patroclians, she/her cintheans, she/her wildeans, or she/her achilleans.

She/Her Gays vs Trans Women
A she/her gay does not have to identify as female in any way! She may acknowledge she is male-identifying, simply using she/her pronouns as an expression of her gender nonconformity or orientation.

It is a common misunderstanding that she/her gays are invalidating of straight transgender women, but that is not at all the case. Pronouns don’t always equate to one’s gender identity, with the majority of individuals identifying as she/her gays being men or male-aligned nonbinary folks. The pronouns one uses are another part of gender expression, just like one's clothes or behavior. In the same way some non-binary individuals are more comfortable using pronouns other than they/them, some binary individuals feel more comfortable using pronouns other than the ones typically associated with their gender.

Flag
The she/her flag was designed by Tumblr user Wuvsbian on May 22, 2018 following their he/him lesbian flag.

Resources

 * 1) https://wuvsbian.tumblr.com/post/174142919962/sheher-gay-flag-this-was-requested-alongside