Coexta

 is a gender descriptor relating to the understanding and application of gender as a concept.

Etymology
The term coexta is a combination of the word extant and the prefix co. “Extant” meaning existing, and “co-” meaning with. This could be interpreted two ways: A coexta person exists with gender by experiencing it, or by existing with, or next to gender itself.

Pronunciation
Coexta is pronounced "co" as in cold, "ex" as in extra, and "ta" as in take. Here it is written (roughly) in IPA: / koɛˈksta /

Definitions

 * A coexta person has a vague, inconsistent relationship with gender. They sometimes feel like gender does not apply to them at all; Other times they feel they may have a gender, but cannot describe what gender they are experiencing. A coexta person’s gender never feels masculine, feminine, or strongly aligned in any way, and as a result is difficult if not impossible to describe accurately. - i-love-my-trans-body, 2020

This differs from terms like demigender and polyagender, because the person fluctuates on the idea of gender itself, not necessarily genderlessness. As such, “coexta” is an adjective, not a noun. For example, you would say “A coexta person,” not “A coexta.”