Hookgender

 is a gender that feels as though it is searching for other genders, hooking them and trying to pull them in. This may be a successful or unsuccessful process, and the gender may feel present until all of the right terms are found.

Etymology
The term comes from the root word hook.

Pronunciation
To be added.

Definitions

 * a gender that feels like searching for other genders, hooking them and trying to pull them in (successfully or unsuccessfully) until you find the right term(s). can be applied to anything - examples are hookgirl, hookfluid etc. - pinkfruitgender, 2021